Marriage Intimacy Etiquettes (Detailed)

INTENSITY MARKERS:
[M] = Fard / Wajib (Obligatory — must do) | [1] = Sunnah Mu'akkadah / Highly Recommended | [2] = Sunnah / Recommended | [3] = Mustahab / Virtuous / Commendable | [H] = Haram (Forbidden — must not do) | [h] = Makruh (Discouraged — should not do) | [P] = Mubah (Permissible — neutral)

✅ What to Do

[1]Begin with du'a before intimacy: "Bismillah, Allahumma jannibna ash-shaytan..." (Bukhari 141)

[1]Foreplay and gentle words — the Prophet would not rush. (Ibn Majah 1857)

[1]Cover yourself and your spouse with a blanket/sheet. (Abu Dawud 2166)

[1]Ensure mutual pleasure and satisfaction.

[1]Say "Arghus shaytan, arghus shaytan" at climax. (Ibn Majah 1922)

[2]Kiss, touch, and embrace — these increase love.

[3]Perform ghusl together — this brings barakah and closeness. (Bukhari 299)

🚫 What Not to Do

What to Do ↑ As You Wish ↓

[H]Have intercourse during menstruation or postpartum bleeding. (Qur'an 2:222)

[H]Have anal intercourse — it is a major sin. (Tirmidhi 1165)

[H]Reveal intimate details to anyone — even your best friend. (Muslim 1437)

[h]Have intercourse standing or in positions that hurt either spouse.

[h]Refuse intimacy without valid reason for extended periods. (Bukhari 5193)

[H]Force intercourse — mutual consent and kindness are required.

[h]Talk about previous sexual experiences or compare.

[h]Have intercourse while naked without covering (contradicts haya').

⭐ As You Wish

What to Do ↑ What Not to Do ↑

— Any halal position is permissible. (Qur'an 2:223)

— Contraception is permissible by mutual consent (azl or modern methods). (Bukhari 5208)

— Choose timing and frequency by mutual agreement.

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