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[1]Be the primary provider (qawwam) — food, clothing, shelter, medical.
[2]Teach your spouse Islamic knowledge patiently.
[3]Control desires and seek refuge from temptation (Quran 12:24; Bukhari 3390) [bg:Revealed in Mecca as 'the best of stories' (ahsan al-qasas) — the complete narrative of Prophet Yusuf. Revealed when the Quraysh tested the Prophet by asking about the story of Yusuf (as suggested by the Jewish rabbis). The surah consoles the Prophet and the Believers who faced persecution from their own families. Revealed in Mecca relating the story of Yusuf (Joseph) when the wife of al-Aziz (Zulaykha) seduced him.]
[3]Recite the Qur'an together as a family.
[M]Be mindful of Allah in solitude (secret devotion) (Quran 19:3; Bukhari 3496) [bg:Revealed in Mecca recounting the stories of Zachariah, John the Baptist, Mary, Jesus, Abraham, Moses, Ishmael, and Idris. Revealed when the Quraysh delegation to the Christian king of Abyssinia (Negus) asked the Muslims about Jesus — the surah's account of Jesus's birth confirmed his prophethood while negating his divinity, leading the Negus to protect the Muslim refugees. Revealed in Mecca describing Zakariyya's secret supplication to his Lord when he grew old and his wife was barren, yet he longed for an heir to continue his prophetic legacy.]
[M]Give inheritance according to prescribed shares (Quran 4:7-12,4:176; Bukhari 4578) [bg:Revealed after the Battle of Uhud (3-4 AH) to legislate women's rights, inheritance laws, marriage regulations, and family justice — reforming the pre-Islamic system that denied women inheritance and treated them as property. Addresses community solidarity and justice for vulnerable members. Revealed in Medina (3 AH) after the Battle of Uhud when the wives and children of the martyrs were left without inheritance under the pre-Islamic system that gave all wealth to adult male relatives. The ayah was revealed establishing the Islamic law of inheritance (fara'id) with fixed shares for women (daughters, wives, mothers), children, and spouses — a radical reform giving women independent property rights for the first time in Arabian history. The specific shares were revealed as a direct divine command, not subject to human modification.]
[M]It is not for a believer, man or woman, to have choice when Allah/His Messenger decide — Obey Allah and His Messenger unconditionally (Quran 33:36; Bukhari 7269) [bg:Revealed in Medina (5-7 AH) concerning the Battle of the Trench (al-Ahzab) in 5 AH when the confederate tribes besieged Medina. The surah establishes the Prophet's marriage to Zaynab bint Jahsh to abolish the pre-Islamic adoption system, commands the hijab for the Prophet's wives, and refutes the hypocrites who fled from battle. Revealed in Medina around 5-7 AH when Zaynab bint Jahsh (the Prophet's cousin) was first offered in marriage to Zayd ibn Harithah (the Prophet's freed slave), and she and her brother hesitated because of the social disparity.]
[M]Live with them in kindness — Treat women with kindness and justice (Quran 4:19; Bukhari 5185) [bg:Revealed after the Battle of Uhud (3-4 AH) to legislate women's rights, inheritance laws, marriage regulations, and family justice — reforming the pre-Islamic system that denied women inheritance and treated them as property. Addresses community solidarity and justice for vulnerable members. Revealed in Medina reforming pre-Islamic Arabian marriage practices where women were treated as property.]
[M]O believers, fear Allah and speak right words — Speak the truth and say the right word (Quran 33:70-71; Bukhari 6092) [bg:Revealed in Medina (5-7 AH) concerning the Battle of the Trench (al-Ahzab) in 5 AH when the confederate tribes besieged Medina. The surah establishes the Prophet's marriage to Zaynab bint Jahsh to abolish the pre-Islamic adoption system, commands the hijab for the Prophet's wives, and refutes the hypocrites who fled from battle. Revealed in Medina (5 AH) commanding: 'O you who believe, fear Allah and speak the right word (qawl sadid) — He will amend your deeds and forgive your sins.' This was revealed when some Muslims were using ambiguous or deceitful speech in negotiations with the hypocrites and Jews of Medina.]
[M]Whoever fears Allah, He will make a way out and provide from where they do not expect — Fear Allah in divorce and family matters (Quran 65:2-3; Bukhari 5258) [bg:Revealed in Medina (6-7 AH) concerning the rules of divorce (talaq) and the waiting period (iddah). The surah commands husbands to pronounce divorce properly, count the iddah, and provide housing for divorced wives. The story of the Prophet's temporary divorce of Hafsah prompted clarification of divorce procedures. Revealed in Medina as a continuation of the divorce regulations, instructing that when the waiting period ('iddah) approaches its end, either retain wives honorably or separate kindly, with just witnesses, for Allah. The ayah promises that whoever fears Allah will be given a way out and provided from sources they could never imagine, giving hope and encouraging righteousness.]